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Why You Should Consider a Sunday Wedding

Sunday weddings are often overlooked, but they could be the perfect fit for you. There are several reasons Sunday weddings are gaining in popularity.

Sunday weddings are perfect for those who want a relaxed atmosphere as they walk down the aisle.

Think about it: You get the whole weekend with your family and friends. Often, guests will plan to arrive on the Friday of your wedding weekend, so having a Sunday wedding means you have Friday evening and Saturday for gatherings, rehearsal dinners, pre-wedding celebrations and more!  (Can you envision sleepover in the bridal cottage or glass of wine with friends under the Little Dipper?)

Our onsite housing and convenient distance to Thomasville enable your wedding and reception to be a weekend getaway for your friends and family.

Ideas for Your Sunday wedding that are exactly right for you and your guests.

– Lean into that relaxed afternoon vibe. Envision yourself with guests mingling and enjoying a drink, or a stunning garden party with a live quartet and lawn games while the music plays.

– Keep it simple (affordable too!) with food stations where guests can choose from small bites like sushi or mini burgers, or a signature drink wall where guests can grab a cocktail as they socialize. Mobile bars that work with Pope’s Museum can make this easily accommodating for you and your guests.

Utilize our garden vignettes to create photo opportunities with our stunning native hydrangea bushes, water feature, or distinctive architecture.

-Keep the focus on celebrating and connecting with friends and family by placing the focus on relationships, not a checklist of receptions ‘to-dos.  Surrounding yourselves with people you love, and who love you, will remain with you long after everyone is gone. A relaxed Sunday wedding can help create that atmosphere. 

We know the day of the week is an important factor when considering your options for hosting your wedding. The atmosphere of each day will influence how your guests feel and act, and how you feel as well.  

Let’s talk about what atmosphere you envision for your wedding celebration. Call us at 229-307-0037 or call/text me personally at 850-459-9620.  Michelle Dean

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Top Reasons Why You Should Hire a Wedding Planner

1.Wedding Wisdom
Planning a wedding is no easy task, and the number one reason we recommend a wedding planner is for the extensive knowledge that comes with the position. The main roles a wedding planner will take on are decorator, budgeter, coordinator, point of contact, and many more. They are your go to person for any help you need when it comes to choosing your wedding details and dealing with the day of coordination. This is a huge relief for any busy couple as they plan their big day.

2.Educates You on Essential Etiquette Guidelines
Regardless of your wedding style, understanding essential practices is paramount. Entrusting your plans to a seasoned wedding planner will help any couple navigate the intricacies of etiquette while also streamlining your journey. A wedding planner is essential in offering time-saving insights and expert guidance for hosting pre-wedding events and ensuring a flawless wedding day.

3.Choosing the Right Wedding Planner for You
There are a variety of types of wedding planners that you can choose from for your big day! Some planners take the full-service approach overseeing every aspect of your event, including decor, rentals, vendor management, and execution. While other planners specialize in day-of coordination focused solely on ensuring the seamless flow of your wedding day. Couples have the flexibility to choose an option that aligns with the scale of their pre-wedding events and the big day itself.

4.Vendor Selection
A wedding planner can play a crucial role in picking the right vendors for your wedding. Planners offer important insights in vendor style, reliability, professionalism, and can guide you towards the right choice to elevate your celebration while also curating the perfect team for your vision. Planners also typically act as the central point of contact and can help streamline communication between the couple and their vendors. 

5.Budget Manager
A wedding planner serves as a financial maestro, bringing unparalleled value to the intricate dance of budgeting for your special day. With a keen understanding of both your vision and financial constraints, a skilled planner navigates the delicate balance of creating a dream wedding within your budgetary parameters. From negotiating vendor contracts to identifying cost-saving opportunities, they possess the expertise to maximize every dollar, ensuring that your celebration is not only memorable but also financially sensible.

 6.Day of Execution
A Planners role in execution is pivotal, as they meticulously coordinate every detail, manage timelines, and troubleshoot unforeseen challenges with grace. With a wealth of experience, a wedding planner brings a calm and confident hand to the coordination process, guaranteeing that each element falls seamlessly into place on your special day. Entrusting a wedding planner with execution means you can savor every moment, confident that the logistics are expertly managed, allowing you to bask in the joy of your celebration without a worry in the world.

7.Let’s you Savor the Moment
A wedding planner is the guardian of your joy, ensuring that your special day is not only flawlessly executed but also a source of pure enjoyment for the couple. By handling the intricate details and logistics, a skilled wedding planner grants you the precious gift of being fully present in the moment. From managing timelines to coordinating vendors and handling any unexpected hiccups, their expertise provides a stress-free environment, allowing you to immerse yourselves in the celebration with undisturbed joy. With a wedding planner by your side, you can relish every magical moment of your special day, confident that every detail is in capable hands.

Photo Credit: Courtney Wahl Photography, Wildflower Events Design

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The Benefits of Choosing a Historic Venue for Your Event

Selecting a historic venue can provide something truly unique for your event. Set in distinctive surroundings, the characteristics of a historic venue and the stories behind it will leave you and your guests with lasting memories long after the event has finished. Pope’s Museum offers you a chance to begin your wedding journey here, adding to those who have begun their family here for more than 100 years.
Pope’s Museum began serving South Georgia as a wedding venue in 1894, as both of Laura Pope Forester’s husbands were Justices of the Peace. Beginning with BH Pope in 1894, weddings have been held at this renown. Recently restored, the locations of these weddings, whether intimately held in “Cupid’s Room” or celebrated on the historic original brick patio, still creates times of joy and festivity for special events.
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1. Great talking points
One of the greatest benefits of hosting events in a historic venue is the opportunity to walk in the footsteps of history. For example, the artist behind Pope’s Museum, Laura Pope Forester (1894-1953), has been recognized by the state of Georgia and the United States Secretary of Interior as a trailblazer in women’s rights in the early 20th century. Her artwork on display and the story of her accomplishments have inspired thousands as they have read and toured this site. You having exclusive use of the historic venue/museum will give your guests topics of conversation as they enjoy the reception.

While your family and wedding party are taking photos, your guests can tour the grounds and be inspired by the 100-foot statuary wall honoring heroes such as the first women in the U.S. military, Martha Berry of Berry College. Red Cross Nurses and more. They can walk the garden paths and enjoy the historic camellias or five feet tall native oakleaf hydrangeas.

2. The kudos –
Aligning yourself with a historic venue and museum such as Pope’s Museum demonstrates that you are a supporter of the values of Laura Pope Forester-those of inclusivity and gratitude. Laura Pope Forester built her home into an award-winning national treasure more than 100 years ago by artistically highlighting the principle that men and women are equally necessary for American success. 

She also knew that beauty and elegance went hand in hand with God’s creation. Hence her art environment showcases her love of gardens and gratitude. Choosing to have your event here demonstrates your belief that these messages are still true.

3. Inspiration and Theming
Historic venues can provide the perfect backdrop for events and give guests great reasons to share pictures from your event, in front of the artwork or spaces which can then be shared on social media to share the celebration.
Historic venues also provide much food for thought when it comes to inspiration for theming. The artistic lace balcony or the distinctive architecture in the columned portico creates decorating inspiration. The arches in “Cupid’s Room” and the split staircase inspire creativity for elegance.
There is no doubt that historic venues provide something magical, something different and something special for today’s events. In a world where experiences are so important, historic venues are a great choice for creating- memorable events. Pope’s Museum LLC: Elegant. Joyous. Distinctive If you are interested in Pope’s Museum LLC for your next event, reach out to us at 850-459-9620 or popestoremuseum@gmail.com

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Destroying Our Vision

It’s tough being a role model in these times. Whether one is one from the past, from literature, or from the present, role models, or heroes, all face cynicism on one side and predestined judgment on the other. We are intentional in ruining our heroes. Need an illustration? These last few years, once top-selling Rescue Hero toys (those of firefighters, law enforcement, EMTs, military, and more) have been replaced with Darth Vader helmets and Investor’s Corner. It seems no one wants to shine the spotlight upon anyone. I ask: What if our heroes do have flaws? Doesn’t that make them more valuable to us? Whether mythical, historical, or current, heroes that have weaknesses and still do great things inspire us to do the same. Heroes are not saviors; they are role models of what can be achieved. In times past, heroes were known for their mighty deeds in spite of their flaws. People looked through the lenses of their own lives before flipping the script changing someone from a hero to a villain. For example, Hercules chose to serve mankind with his strength. In serving humanity, he chose to reject wallering in the hatred of his stepmother Hera, Zeus’ wife. Hercules shows us that our future is not bound by our heritage. Our choices direct our future, not our genealogy. It isn’t just Greek mythology that offers us hope and wisdom.

Just like ancient studies, more recent role models that used to be revered now are lifted up to scorn. For example, Dwight D. Eisenhower is given the honor for military victories such as the Invasion of Normandy and ending the Korean War but is condemned for not resolving the Cold War. Harriet Tubman is given recognition for rescuing more than 700 individuals from slavery, but people reconsider her valor when they learn she forced some to run or be shot dead in their tracks. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s entire message is affected by his personal life as a ‘serial cheater’ (i.e. adulterer). In recent news, current heroes that serve on the job with honor and distinction are vilified if one situation results in a bad judgment. What are we losing by expecting perfection from people?

Perhaps looking at an entire life causes us to judge in error. What if we looked at people through the lens of what they overcame? What if we looked at life through the victory they achieved? We would know that the Cold War needed time to resolve. We would realize Harriet was unwilling to let anyone jeopardize others’ freedom. We would realize that promoting a message of racial opportunity is not the same as a message of marital faithfulness. These heroes’ choices do not affect their success. Perhaps we would also look at ourselves as bastions of opportunity as well.

Laura Pope Forester did just that. She created a museum where over 200 sculptures focused on the victory and the character trait that made them successful.

  • Scarlett O’Hara: Yes, she was without ethics in financial dealings, but she protected her home and those she cared about.

 

  • Cleopatra: Yes, she was known to have married her brother (common for rulers then), but she commanded naval forces, brought stability and prosperity to her country, and wrote several publications on Greek medicine, aiming to bring more science and safety to her people.

  • Nancy Hart: Yes, she was known as vengeful, domineering, and cross-eyed. But she defended her home and nation, singlehandedly capturing 6 British officers and seeing them hung on her Georgia farm.

Laura Pope Forester did not celebrate the failures. She celebrated victories. Throughout her museum she created memorials to men and women and what they achieved in spite of overwhelming odds. In doing so, she became a role model herself. Let’s do the same.

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Paving a path to the future

It was an experience that choked me up. It still does. Last year, 2 older men flanked their 98-year-old father, tucking their arms firmly under his, steadying him while allowing him to retain his dignity and independence. They moved slowly across the mulch paths working so that all of them could navigate the chipped and chunky bark. It was a humbling experience to witness. James* was a World War II vet that had come to Pope’s Museum to tour the memorials and the artwork. He also came to see the names of peers carved in marble. Those names of men who, unlike James, did not get a chance to return home and have sons to steady and honor their service.

The year prior was also revealing. A wedding was scheduled for Sept of 2020. In a large handicap-accessible van, three generations of the bride’s family were preparing to come in from Kentucky for the special occasion. The only problem was the mother of the bride was a quadriplegic, and navigating the mulched paths in her extremely heavy motorized wheelchair was going to be a near impossibility. “Will I be able to see my daughter get married?” Jeanette* asked. One could almost taste the panic in her correspondence. Pope’s Museum was committed and built special ramps to assist her in this mother’s dream. Yes, we were able to work with the veteran and the mother of the bride, but in other situations, we have had to turn people away from both visiting and using this national treasure. But there is a solution. Upgrade the mulch paths to bricks.
 
 
Using antique red clay bricks allows us to repurpose the mulch in the landscaping areas, create an accessible path for mobility-challenged guests, and for you to honor the past and people. It allows you to remember events and to celebrate those people whether they be in the past or present. It allows you to advertise your business for decades after you have ordered your brick. Whether you use your own clip art or polar engraving, your brick helps make this national treasure accessible for generations. Need ideas? Here are a few: Anniversaries, Business Logos, Parents, Business Names, Births, People who served, Graduations, Historical Events, Official Military Insignia, Inspirational quotes, Scripture verses, Pets, etc.
Each brick ranges from $50-$100. The sizes are 4×8 and 8×8 and include 3 lines of engraving and/or clip art. These prices also allow us to put aside funds for the installation and preservation of the paths. Will you consider purchasing a brick? While Pope’s Museum staff is available to help you, you can do it from your desk or your couch. Secure website. The entire proceeds from the project go through the website below. Please help us to make Popes Museum accessible for all, those looking back and those looking forward. Thank you.

www.polarengraving.com/popesmuseum

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Break out the Champagne! We did it

Today, on October 29, 2021, With a UNANIMOUS vote, the National Review Board affirmed Popes Museum to be on the National Register of Historic Places. What an honor!

Currently, there are under 2,300 places in Georgia that have this honor. This places Popes Museum as a site that is recognized by the United States National Park Service as nationally significant in the areas of Art and Women’s history. The restoration of Popes Museum has been recognized and approved by the United States Department of Interior as being authentic and it looks BEAUTIFUL!

But wait, there is more!!!

Additionally, the Georgia Department of Community Affairs stated, “…While not recognized until after her death, it is today recognized as among the oldest documented self-taught art environments in Georgia and the southeast and is believed to rank among the oldest surviving such environments in the United States.”

How cool is that! Laura Pope Forester created a museum from her home that showcased the accomplishments of women. She believed she should say thank you to the military who protected and served during her lifetime of living through both World War I and World War II. She also used her skill to strengthen the family. In fact, the front portion of the house is historically named “Cupid’s Room” due the the dozens of couples getting married there.
 
70 years after her death, the nation is honoring her works, her beliefs and her genius. Today we are a museum, a bed and breakfast and an event venue, specializing in weddings. Whether you want a wedding outdoors such as Desiree and John choose, or one in Cupid’s Room such as Meghan and Ryan did, know that choosing Popes Museum means you have selected a venue that is elegant and unique inside and out.
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Hallmark Moments

One of the benefits of having a 13-year-old daughter and a sentimental husband is hearing them watch Hallmark movies together. When I hear “O Dad, they’re about to kiss!” or “It’s not over yet. They haven’t smooched yet”, I beam in the anticipated moment of universal joy and widespread optimism. I also realize these items are what our Popes Museum Farm family wants to provide for our brides and grooms: Joy and Optimism with a sprinkling of enthusiastic laughter.

Since 1894 Popes Museum has been the choice for couples to begin their lives together. Because of this legacy, our family knows that The right venue strengthens connections to the past and creates ties of hope for the future. Three strategic steps help us live out this mission.

#Familyiseverything – Lived out at Popes Museum Farm, we endeavor to create an atmosphere where people are the precedence. For example, this means that serving the mother of the bride in a wheelchair is a priority. It means making sure the great-grandparents have escorts to their car in the pouring down rain. It means seamlessly rearranging the wedding plans when the pandemic hits the bridal party the week before the wedding. The result is that families relax knowing that this is their moment to add to the family legacy.

 
# Laughmore – Your wedding is your celebration, not a comparison with Jones’s wedding. While Pinterest and dream boards are tools for developing styles, Popes Museum is a unique venue for your unique wedding. It is your time to have the time of your life! Whether it is family flash dances or unexpected kids’ karaoke, joy-filled moments are what you will remember. Popes Museum Farm’s atmosphere focuses on you, not the venue.
 

#Servewithexcellence – Our brand is what people say about us after the wedding. While a tour and interview may result in a contract, it is the service over the entire event that creates the brand. That is why all of our family members love it when we read reviews like:

Last month our client shared that she felt like watching her daughter get married here was like watching a Hallmark moment. Despite the turbulence of 2020, the wedding was everything they dreamed it would be for her daughter and son-in-law. Her family laughed and loved their way throughout the entire celebration. Just like in the movies, my daughter especially loved it when the groom gave the bride that famous Hallmark kiss.
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Why Elopements Could be the Perfect Fit

Elope? That involves a young couple, hand in hand, running across a moonlit field, via a hastily made escape rope made of bed sheets right? That makes for great movie drama, but is not an authentic picture of what an elopement looks like in 2020.

Elopements are gaining in popularity, as are micro weddings. Where micro-weddings are thoroughly planned events with a smaller group of guests, elopements are personalized intimate events that have sweeping romantic touches throughout every aspect. Simply put, elopements offer couples the freedom to have both an elegant event in an intimate and unique setting. With less need for months of preparation, there is less stress and more focus on the occasion. Pope’s Museum works with a team of experts that can help you choose whether or not elopement is right for you.

Unless you are planning on getting married in a judge’s office, a venue is one of the first decisions. Since the goal is personalized and intimate, the venue must be one that fits. Put another way, does this venue fit your unique relationship with originality and distinction? Whether you want to walk down a sweeping staircase, stand beneath a southern pecan tree, or join hands in an art gallery, where you elope is a key factor in personalizing your wedding. After all, your wedding venue is part of the experience, not just a space to share vows.

It’s more than just the venue though. As you think about an elopement, here are some insights from experts in the wedding industry that serve with Popes Museum. Christie Woodrow, owner and operator of Wildflower Event Design (https://www.wildflowereventdesign.com) shares that elopement weddings can be an especially romantic special way to celebrate your love story.

She knows that this is still THE DAY. Therefore her counsel is straightforward and tailored to you, for you. She advises, “Splurge on one thing. Find a way to tailor your ceremony to you. Some brides order dozens of their favorite flower and petals for the ceremony. Another option is gourmet mini cupcakes with their initials and ceremony colors. It doesn’t matter what it is; as long as it as it is personal to you and your love story!”

As an event planner, Christie also advises to invest in a great photographer and makeup artist. “Doing a wedding on a smaller scale does not mean you deserve to look less than amazing!” Pope’s Museum agrees. Weeks or years after the event, a great photograph is worth the investment. Courtney Wahl of Courtney Wahl Photography (www.courtneywahl.com) shares that elopements provide her with more time with the couple. Not only can she capture the quiet moments, smaller weddings are also less stressful. The occasion flows like waves, where the transition between moments is more effortless, rather than staged. Photography captures the beauty of the event. Therefore, beauty in the environment is a great investment

Pope’s Museum knows that florals and fauna create an atmosphere where you can feel spectacular. Having an elopement offers the opportunity to vamp it up. Melissa Brock, the owner and operator of award winning South of Stem Florals (www.southofstem.com) loves elopements. She specifically mentions that elopements allow the floral budget to go to the items most photographed like the bouquet and ceremony space.

It is less stressful too. She writes, “You have so much less stress giving everyone space and time to take in all the glory of the moment and “smell the roses”.

Catering is less stressful as well. Although it is easily apparent that serving a dinner for ten guests is more affordable than serving for 250 guests, it is also more intimate and personal. Too often, responsibilities and expectations at large weddings leave the bride and groom without a chance to enjoy their own day. Elopements offer affordability and high end dining. Crystal Wells of Cookies and Catering (https://www.facebook.com/Cookies-and-Catering-105431094361454/) brings just that to the table. Their goal is to exceed your expectations of service & food. It’s a win-win. Elopements have the bride and groom eating and laughing together around the table.

Perhaps for some, the question is who is sitting around the table? While elopements are generally less than 10 guests, there are ways to involve others not on site. 3 Dawgs Productions (https://www.facebook.com/3DawgsPro/) offers professional live streaming of events at Pope’s Museum no matter the size. By offering streaming of small weddings, you can open your audience up to those who cannot attend due to all sorts of reasons be it health, funds, timing or any other reason. Streaming service also offers professional audio including microphones and music directly input into your stream and allows you to record your service to keep digitally or on disc to share or watch later.

A perfect venue, working with a team of professionals, can have your wedding happen so that you can join hands and hearts together. Pope’s Museum welcomes being a key part of that, with an elegant affordable venue and a team of professionals ready to make your dream come true. www.popesmuseumfarm.com

Photo Credit - Courtney Wall Photography - Wildflower Events Designs. Flowers - South of Stem

“Something Old, Something New…”

Brides across generations can usually finish this traditional litany of requirements needed before the wedding march begins. Our grandmothers knew it, our mothers knew it. Having a fresh approach toward the “old and new” is what brides recognize at Popes Museum. From 1894-1953 weddings were performed in Cupid’s Room. This room, originally built in 1854 includes heart pine flooring, a split staircase, and the original mantle and mirror. It still reflects of legacies of families who come from a long line of love, and those who are starting their own legacy. Something old and something new.

The vision of “something old and something new” continues out into the grounds as well. Whether you are standing beneath the 100 year-old Magnolias and cedar trees or smelling the newly planted tea olives, the gardens themselves testify of something old and something new for your wedding.

Is “Something borrowed, Something blue” more your speed? Pope’s Museum has that too, whether it is borrowing The Bridal Cottage or the accommodations for your out-of-town guests.The “Something Blue” is evidenced in the hand painted murals, artistically crafted by Outsider artist Laura Pope Forester that are on the walls, or the blue hydrangeas that bloom throughout the historic gardens.

The last line in the wedding poem goes like this, “and a Sixpence in her shoe…” The intent is to wish prosperity upon the new bride. Popes Museum is a partner with the bride and groom in that as well. While elegant and historic, Pope’s Museum does not break your bank account. In fact, wedding planners have testified that we are one of the best kept secret for brides that want beauty, elegance and affordability!

That makes Pope’s Museum the perfect choice for your wedding and the perfect choice for your marriage!

Come schedule your tour. We have so much to offer and your mind will be humming the tune “Something old something new, Something borrowed Something blue and a Sixpence in your shoe,” knowing that you know the secret to having it all.

*Photos by Courtney Wahl Photography

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A Word To Our Veterans

To the Family Members of:

Olin C. Atkins 
Willie H. Collins 
Morea A. Golden 
Perry D. Gray 
Charles L. Hammett 
William L Braswell
John L. Rehberg

Lawson F. Bryant
Harvey Hester
Earl I. Cliett
James R. Palmer
Lem C. Hammett
Alonzo . McCrory

In 1919, Armistice Day was first celebrated as an anniversary to the end of World War I, the war that was supposed to be the end of all wars. On the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month we honor those men and women who served and gave all for freedom. Recognizing this sacred act, Congress changed it from a celebration of the end of WWI to a national holiday honoring all veterans in 1936. Yet sixteen years earlier, Laura Pope Forester, a woman whose love for her family, her community and her country grounded and inspired her, formed and sculpted her own memorial to the men from Grady County who died during that war. Your ancestor is carved onto the marble slab of this nearly century old memorial at Pope’s Museum.

While is likely that you have only heard stories of this forefather of your family, it is our family’s conviction that gratitude crosses generations and extends across time. Therefore, we want to say thank you and we are sorry for your loss. In losing a grandfather, an uncle or a father in war you lost someone who could have taken you fishing, shown you how throw a curve-ball or how to know when you meet “Mr. Right”. Our entire community and nation lost as well. This week, as we say thank you to all veterans, Pope’s Museum is proud to say that the WWI memorial where your ancestor is honored is still standing strong. The restoration is nearly completed. This is because our community has not forgotten that freedom is bought with the blood of its heroes.

Dan and Michelle Dean

The willingness with which our young people are likely to serve in any war, no matter how justified, shall be directly proportional to how they perceive veterans of early wars were treated and appreciated by our nation.
-George Washington

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